An anonymous woman has come to The North Carolina Beat to warn other women to be careful when dating a man she describes as an abusive narcissist, with whom she was once in a relationship.
The domestic violence survivor told The North Carolina Beat that 34-year-old T’Darian Jacquez Thomas has threatened her, beaten her, and tried to paint a false narrative of her, all while not revealing to his followers that he is putting on a show to cover up his long list of domestic violence charges.
In July 2023, Thomas was arrested and charged with several domestic violence offenses, including violating a domestic violence restraining order, assaulting a female, possession of a firearm by a felon, and assault by pointing a gun.
According to the domestic violence victim, she stated that all the charges were related to what Thomas did to her. The woman said that Thomas won’t leave her alone. She said he even befriended her social media friends just to let them see the negative things he’s posting about her.
Those friends would come back and show her what Thomas posted about her, such as pictures of her, her address, lies, and other malicious things to torment a woman he had allegedly been abusing.
The woman told The North Carolina Beat that she and Thomas had been together since she was 20 years old, and he was all she knew. She said the two of them created a family together, and she has always protected him no matter what they had going on. The domestic violence survivor said Thomas has thrown her to the wolves every chance he gets, even though he’s the abuser.
The North Carolina Beat obtained a domestic violence protection order granted by a Mecklenburg County judge in August 2023 for the victim of domestic violence. In the order, the presiding judge found that T’Darian Jacquez Thomas placed the victim in fear of imminent serious bodily harm and in fear of continued harassment that rises to a level sufficient to inflict substantial emotional distress.
According to the complaint, on July 20, 2023, Thomas “threatened to kill the Plantiff and sent her numerous unwanted communications the next day, harassing and intimidating Plantiff. Defendant has a history of physically assaulting Plantiff, causing bodily injury and harm (including, but not limited to bruising, cuts, and abrasions). Defendant also shot into Plantiff’s home in 2020 (in violation of a DVPO) and pointed a gun at Plantiff. Plantiff fears for her safety and for the safety of her children.”
The judge has ordered Thomas to stay away from the victim, not to assault, harass, intimidate, threaten, abuse, or interfere with her life. The judge also ordered Thomas not to threaten anyone in the household of the victim.
The domestic violence protection order is in effect until August 7, 2024.
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