A Raleigh woman is going viral after claiming she was called a racial slur in front of her baby and dog by another woman—identified as Andrea Ingram—during a heated street altercation.
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According to TikToker @kaylahpantaleon, whose real name is Kaylah Pantaleon, the drama happened while she was crossing the street onto a sidewalk with her child in a front carrier and her dog in tow. In a now-viral video, she explained how it all escalated after Ingram allegedly sped around a corner and honked at her.
“THIS IS WHERE I MESSED UP,” Pantaleon said. “I didn’t keep moving… I turned around and said, ‘You don’t gotta honk like that’ Then I kept walking.”
But instead of driving off, Ingram allegedly rolled down her window and fired back with a slur.
“I didn’t see you, you wetback b***h. Don’t get your teeth knocked out,” Pantaleon claimed Ingram shouted, leaving her stunned and unsure how to respond while holding her baby.
Pantaleon, visibly emotional in the video, said she approached the vehicle to get clarity, saying “Excuse me?”—only for Ingram to allegedly swing her door open like she was going to get out, but then got back in and sped off.
“She followed me, my baby, and my dog to the next block,” Pantaleon said through tears. “I was about to dial 911 but then I thought… you’re going to call the cops in the South?”
Instead, she began recording video.
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ANDREA INGRAM SPEAKS OUT: “I WAS STARTLED. SHE DIDN’T LOOK LEFT OR RIGHT.”
The North Carolina Beat reached out to Andrea Ingram, who confirmed the incident happened last month near Sheetz on Rogers Lane in Raleigh, around 9 p.m. She said she was startled by Pantaleon and her baby suddenly crossing the road.
“She didn’t look left or right. I honked and she starts yelling, ‘Slow the fk down, b*h!’ So I’m cursing at her, and we’re going back and forth,” Ingram told The North Carolina Beat.
Ingram admitted she got out of her car briefly but realized Pantaleon with her baby and a dog.
“She was at my window, banging on my window with, and I didn’t know if she had a weapon,” Ingram said. “I was going to punch her, but I realized the baby and dog and got back in.”
She said Pantaleon called her several names but added that she never once used the n-word.
“After she crossed the street, I did start yelling slurs because I was so mad because i couldn’t touch her. But she walked up to my vehicle when she should’ve just kept going,” Ingram said.
Andrea Ingram said she is deeply sorry for using the slur. In TikTok DM messages shared with us by Ingram, Pantaleon can be seen conversing with Ingram’s eldest daughter and expressing a desire to make amends Ingram – vice versa.
Pantaleon said she didn’t post the video for “content”; rather, she hoped the video “could unite us by showcasing the real division among marginalized communities.”
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